Why Has She Stopped Responding? Here’s How to Get Her to Text Back
We want to discuss something with you that every guy will experience at some point in relationships. You did the groundwork and you got her number, you sent her an awesome first text that captured her attention and engaged her emotions, and now you’ve been texting on-and-off for a few days now…
All of a sudden, you send her a text…
You send another…
You wait for hours…
Frustrating, isn’t it?
I’ve been there!
It happens to the best of us, unfortunately.
Thankfully, if you are reading this, then we have Race de Priest here, the author of Text That Girl!, to help you out. If you have never heard of Race before, he’s an expert on texting, and he’s been sending and receiving more than 7,000 texts per month for years, while writing his new book “Text That Girl!”
While we are far from being text whores (in fact we prefer in-person interactions), it is important to realize that texting is the bridge from chatting with your girl on the hookup site to meeting up for a date. Therefore, it is crucial to have a decent text game, because that’s what comes before a date!
Do Not Take Things Personally
Now, the important thing to remember if and when this happens is to not take it personally. So many guys will confront a girl, hounding her for an explanation. Others will internalize it all and blame themselves. However, there can be literally hundreds of reasons why she has yet to reply:
- She’s busy at work
- Her phone is dead
- She had a family emergency
- She literally forgot to text back
Do don’t take things personally, there may be legitimate reasons on why she is not texting you back! Don’t start getting desperate for a reply and spam her phone, that is the EASIEST way to lose a girl.
It Could Be You: Find Out Why
Of course, there are also a couple major reasons she did not text you back. Girls are like this: they are never direct creatures. So you will never know the real reasons why she did not respond. But if the below sounds anything like what you are doing, the perhaps it may be because you have always been taking the wrong approach.
1. You texted too much, too soon
It goes without saying, but sometimes we get so excited about getting a cute girl’s number that we, without realizing it, over-text them. In the early stages of the interaction, remember – less is more. Your goal of the early interactions is to engage her emotions, create attraction, and get her out on a date.
The mindset here to adopt is – send it and forget it. Literally set your phone down if you are too tempted to immediately respond. By immediately responding to her messages, you subconsciously give off the vibe that you are sitting around waiting for her messages. Nothing kills attraction faster than being over eager.
2. Your texts were too generic and didn’t engage her emotions
Have you ever sent a funny or insightful text, only to get a response of “lol” or “k”? Remember how frustrating it was? As a text master, you will never send these bland, generic texts again. Generic texts will never engage her at her emotional core. Remember – women are emotional creatures, so it is on you to spark her emotions early and often.
3. She lost interest in you
This is really a combination of one and two, if you are texting too much, too soon or sending generic one-word texts that don’t engage her emotions, eventually she will lose interest and it will be back to square one…
What You Should Do!
However, there’s no need to worry. You can immediately fix these issues by doing the following things:
- Be bold in your texts
- Make sure to mirror her response time and length of text when responding
- Be more descriptive with your language to engage her emotions
- Put your phone down and go do something else after you text her
- Don’t overthink things. It’s only been an hour – don’t drive yourself crazy waiting for a response.
Texting girls can be literally a science but the good news is that it can be learnt. This is what Race de Priest promised us before we agree to recommend his e-book – he will literally guaratee results for our readers.
So just take note, if you buy his e-book, you get a 60-DAYS MONEY BACK GUARANTEE. So at any point in time that you are not satisfied with Race’s techniques or feel that they are not useful, simply drop Race an email for a refund and you are guaranteed to get your money back. If you are having issues getting the refund, let us know and we will step in personally to help you.
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